In my last post about little Aubrey I talked about how she isn't gaining much weight and told you it was another story for another day. Well, today's the day.
Note: This post will be a little bit personal and long so if you don't care to hear the details, skip to the bottom for the size comparison picture. I just want to remember these little details.
When Aubrey was born she was 6 lbs 10 oz. So she was pretty little to start out, but definitely not tiny. But feeding in the beginning was quite the challenge. The first few days of life we could not really get her to eat a whole lot at all. Slowly we were starting to get her to eat a few more Mil's every time she would eat until before long she was eating a good amount. But she would not nurse. Like at all. Since she was in the NICU, the nurses were having me pump through out the day and then I would bring them the milk for them to feed her when I was not around. The nurses and doctors were all pleased with the amount of milk I was bringing in... it was double what she was eating.
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Back to the nursing thing. I know that nursing is supposed to be the best thing for your baby- and I actually quite enjoy being able to nurse my sweet little babies. So this was quite the challenge. I wanted so badly for it to work. Once we found out that Aubrey for sure did have DS our doctor told me not to push her too hard and to just keep pumping for a while and see what happens. Feeding can be quite difficult for babies with DS for a number of reasons such as low muscle tone in the tongue (hence the reason they tend to stick their tongue out a lot). Another issue we were having with Aubrey was that her oxygen levels would drop drastically while eating because it would wear her out and she would forget to breathe. By the time we left the NICU she was doing so much better at eating but would still only take the bottle. Right before leaving the hospital, the lactation nurse suggested I try using a shield while nursing that made it feel more like eating from a bottle for the baby. And guess what? It worked! After about 10 days of only using a bottle, Aubrey would finally let me nurse her. Things got a lot better after that. She used the shield every time she ate for about the first 3 weeks and then finally we were able to lose the shield.
Although Aubrey's weight gain was slow, it was consistent. Her doctor was not concerned at all, until one day we went in for a weight check just to find that her growth had slowed down. In three weeks she had only gained about 3 oz...
Anyway, to make a long story short ( I know it's already too late) I knew exactly when things changed. I could feel it. I tried everything I could think of to get her to eat more. Our doctor had me feed her a bottle after nursing her, which she usually wouldn't eat. So I figured this meant she was content with how much she had eaten. After about another 2 weeks of little weight gain, I decided it was probably best for us to cut back on nursing and start pushing the bottle harder. I went through 4 different types of bottles and many stressful attempts at getting her to eat from the bottle before we were finally successful.
Two weeks ago Aubrey weighed 8 lb 3 oz...
One week ago she finally started taking the bottle...
and today she weighs...
9 lb 4 oz!
I think this is one instance that nursing really wasn't the best thing for the baby... We know it wasn't that I didn't have a good milk supply. That wasn't the problem. I think the problem was that since it took so much energy for her to eat, she would just stop eating as soon as she felt content. Whether or not she was full. I have found that even with the bottle she usually eats about 2 ounces and then waits a bit before finally eating about 2 more ounces.
Anyway, my baby is finally starting to gain weight, and for that I am grateful. Here is a little size comparison picture for you.
Here she is at one month and at 3 months.